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Health And Beauty Tips
3 Holiday Makeup Looks
Adverse food reactions
Allergic rhinitis
Anaphylactic shock adults
At the scene of an accident
Avoiding allergens
Babies failing to thrive
Back injuries
Children and young people
ColdMediDangerous Infants
Colds and flu
Disguise a Double Chin
Drinking Coffee Helps Fight Alzheimer's,
Drug allergy
Eye Allergies
Finding the time
Foods th8Lower Cholesterol
Grass-Fed Beef The Natural Alternative
Head Injury
Heart Attack
Help for Tired Eyes
Hepatitis C
How much exercise do I need
Injuries and treatment
Look Younger by Morning
Lung cancer cases
Maintaining  target weight
Makeup Tricks 4 Dark Skin
Match Makeup 2 Your Outfit
Moving on
Opening airway
Perfect Lipstick
Fixes CommonHair Problem
Recovery position
Risky Business for Teens
Sensible slimming
Sleep Disorders
Summer hay fever
Supporting someone with cancer
Tips to give up smoking
Venom allergies
What's the right activity 4me
Why get fit
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Moving on

It can be difficult to come to terms with failed fertility treatments,
but when it's time to move on there are places to turn.

There are many reasons people come to the decision not to continue
fertility treatment. It may happen when the consultant says there's
little or no chance of success. For others, there comes a point at
which they can no longer endure the emotional roller coaster of
treatments, or the financial cost is too high and they can no longer
afford treatment. After several - or many - attempts that haven't
resulted in the birth of a baby, a couple may just feel it's time to move on.

For others, there comes a point at which they can no
longer endure the emotional roller coaster

At whatever point it's decided to call it a day, it's vital to know
the decision has been made without pressure and that the time
and money - spent having treatment hasn't been wasted.
There shouldn't be a feeling of personal failure.

Coming to terms
If having children was part of your life plan, accepting that a
baby won't be conceived can be extremely distressing and
prompt a re-evaluation of life. During this time, there may be
many emotional experiences:




sexual problems

relationship problems with partner, family and/or friends

guilt and self-blame

a sense of helplessness

a profound sense of loss or bereavement

It's important you make time to work through these.
There's no right or wrong way for partners to do so.
It may help to talk things over with a relative, friend or a religious
faith leader. It can also help to talk to a counsellor or other couples
who've been through the same experience.

Alternative ways of having a family
Even if you decide not to have any more attempts at assisted
reproduction, it doesn't necessarily mean you have to give up
all hope of having a family. There are other ways of becoming a parent.

About 5,000 children are adopted each year in the UK. However,
there's very limited opportunity to adopt a young baby (under one year old).

Adoption is likely to work best if it's seen as a positive choice rather
than as second best. For this reason, many adoption agencies specify
that people who've been trying for a baby using assisted conception
leave it six months to a year after completing treatment, to ensure
they have come to terms with their infertility.

Adoption organisations
Adoption Matters
Overseas Adoption Support and Information Service
Post-Adoption Centre

Adoption is a complex process - emotionally and legally
so it's important to seek advice. Most agencies emphasise thorough
preparation and will work with people before they adopt to help
them achieve the best outcome for the child and themselves.

To find out more, contact the British Association for Adoption &

Remaining childfree
It can take time to come to terms with the idea of being childfree.
This is especially the case if there has been the hope of a child while
going through fertility treatment. The realisation may also come if
adoption and surrogacy haven't worked out or aren't possible.

The organisation More to Life, which is affiliated to Infertility Network UK,
provides support for couples who are exploring what it may mean to be childfree.

If you're in this situation, it may help to work through the following
questions as you try to come to terms with a life without children.

Why did you want children?

How might life be better/worse without a child?

What positive changes in life would children have brought?

How might positive change be incorporated into a life without

What kind of things will be possible without children?

What sort of things were enjoyed before the start of infertility
treatment? Are those things still attractive?

What other ambitions can be considered, apart from having

How can new ambitions and aims be made possible?

Remember, a life without children can be as fulfilling and rewarding as
one with them. There may also be other opportunities to be involved
with children - by taking an interest in and supporting the children of
family and friends, for example, or by working with children's
charities or in local children's projects.

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